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Date: December 18, 2020 at 11:49:12
From: Awen, [DNS_Address]
Subject: Up to you whether you want to delete or not, Bopp |
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You'll find a rather ranty post in response to Chet
in the dreams forum.
Been talking to my therapist, and following her
instruction, I'm standing up to rape supporters like
Chet.
From here on out, no more silence. If the rant back
at filth like him is too much, feel free to ban me.
I'm not walking away and letting gaslighting horrors
who like to bait me based on a horrible experience
get away with it anymore.
That said, it's your forum, and I can also see that
it might cross a line with other posters, I'm not
going to be offended if you choose to delete it, but
if Chet continues to bait, it won't be the last post
of it's type.
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Date: December 18, 2020 at 12:08:32
From: mr bopp, [DNS_Address]
Subject: Re: Up to you whether you want to delete or not, Bopp |
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Date: December 18, 2020 at 12:05:22
From: Awen, [DNS_Address]
Subject: And I do mean this genuinely |
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The problem with a person airing a trauma is that
you might feel that by curbing the behavior you're
appearing to side against me.
I'm posting here mainly as a reassurance that I know
it isn't a matter of side taking, it's a matter of
considering everyone, and the fact that my way f
dealing with this might not be best for the running
of your board, potentially offending others and
driving them away or to silence (alternatively,
perhaps it might give hope to others who feel
silenced, whatever their walk of life, but it's hard
to say....in this case one person's empowerment can
too easily be another person's further reminder and
trauma).
And you might not feel that way, no one else might
see it that way at all. But rest assured I don't
consider a deletion or a ban to be siding against me
here, or being in support of...that which I'm siding
against, so if you feel it needs to be done, go for
it.
Because...at this point, something inside has
changed, and I think I'm going to be more ashamed to
choose to be silent than I am if I choose to tell a
person off, whatever form that telling off takes.
There's anger now, rage, but the shame over the
outbursts is gone.
Still remaining is the objective knowledge that it's
not a comfortable thing for others to read and there
IS concern in me that I might inadvertently harm
others who have gone through similar. Or drive
folks away, as your forum isn't really intended as a
place to air those traumas.
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